Difficulty in determining the difference between what we
need and what we want is a problem of our Internal Boundaries
as defined by Pia Mellody in her audio set.
Without a functional boundary system, we cannot do several things:
Own our own reality- this is why we gossip and take the inventory
of othere
Boundaries are the CONTAINER for our sense of self
No boundaries, no self worth
They work together like an automobiles clutch and gas pedal
without one, the other is useless
I'm getting a new understanding of the how and why of my
"messing up" or self sabotage pattern that I've been
runing since the mother of most of my children left me.
My latest ebook "Dysfunctional Behavior Rapid Repair Manual"
spells out a lot of this.
In a nutshell, boundaries and self worth work together like a car's
clutch pedal and gas pedal
If you don't work them at the same time, you'll stall
Dysfunctional Behavior Rapid Repair Manual
A short report about an effective strategy to end
Dysfunctional Behavior Patterns.
Up till now you thought you were the voice inside your head
That voice is your Ego
You are much more than an Ego
The only real time expiriances we have are:
With our selves (our authentic self)
and with God
consider this:
All perceptions are in the past
When we look up at the night sky, some of those
stars are not there anymore... it took so long
for the light to travel here, that some stars
have exploded millions of years ago
We'd never know that by looking with our eyes
All sight, anything we see- light takes 186,000 mph
to reach us, then several milliseconds for our
optical nerves, cornea, retina as so on to process
All we hear, sound travels at 760mph at sea level,
anyway- everthing we hear is in the past
Even Sex, the closest we can be with another person
swaping bodily fluids and such...
tactile expiriences take milliseconds
for our nervous system to process
======================
more later
Manipulation Causes Victim Based Thinking
7 years ago